Friday, January 9, 2026

To Be Known

 Happy Friday, Friends!

Friday, January 2, 2026

Are You the One?

Happy Friday, Friends!

I hope and trust this post finds you all having a great day on this glorious first Friday of 2026 in my Sweet Home Alabama! Additionally, I sincerely hope you gave and received the gift of presence this Christmas!

Are you the one?

I have a great friend, a Godly man, I am very blessed to have in my life, whose father states, “Every young man has the opportunity to be the first.” My friends goes on to explain, “the context is when a young man has experienced sins of the father, and they doubt their ability to change that.” It is in those situations that my friend's father reminds young men that “every young man has the opportunity to be the first.” Great, faith-filled words of hope and inspiration.

While I believe this statement to be true, I do not believe it is limited strictly to men, nor do I think it is limited solely to “sins of the father.” While I am broadening the statement's context, I am confident my friend and his father would agree with my message this Friday afternoon. I believe it can be expanded to all people, and the message can include anything less than what God created the individual to become.

Perhaps for you, you had an absent father. Are you the one to be present?

Perhaps for you, you had a controlling, manipulative mom. Are you the one to love unconditionally?

Perhaps for you, nobody in your family has ever pursued a higher education – a 2-year or 4-year degree, or perhaps graduated from a trade school. Are you the one to do so?

Perhaps, for you, your family has always lived and made decisions out of fear. Are you the one who lives and makes decisions by faith?

Perhaps, for you, no one in your family has ever been financially independent or responsible. Are you the one to do so?

Are you the one?

My hope is not to make an expansive list but instead point you to the wisdom of my friend's father; just because you grew up or were raised in a particular situation or set of circumstances, it doesn’t mean you can’t be the first one in your family to do it differently. I can’t remember who said it, but it is very wise; when we take responsibility, we have response–ability.  

 As so many are making New Year’s Resolutions this time of year, I want to encourage us to pray, reflect, and look more deeply. If everyone in your life that you care deeply about consistently believed what you believe, lived as you live, and did what you do, would it lead them to a life of growth and prosperity? If not, perhaps you are the one. 

Please don’t hesitate to contact me at any time if there is ever anything I can do for you or your family. I will always help you any way I can. You can reach me at kevin@whatwillyourinfluencebe.com. 

Have a great evening, a wonderful weekend, please cherish your precious family, and please stay well!


Kev

Friday, December 26, 2025

There Are No Off Days

Happy Friday, Friends!

I hope and trust this post finds you all having a great day as a glorious new day begins to dawn in my Sweet Home Alabama! Additionally, I sincerely hope you all had a wonderful Christmas!

 

I can get pretty fired up about Mark 12:30-31, which says, “30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’[a] 31 The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’[b] There is no commandment greater than these.” The one that usually gets me fired up, challenges me greatly, and that I have written about in previous Happy Fridays is the period at the end of the sentence, “Love your neighbor as yourself.” It’s a period, not a comma. It does not go on to tell me that I should love those I like, who look like me, who believe what I believe, or any other qualifier I would like to add. It simply says, “Love your neighbor as yourself.”

 

This morning, I also want to point out that there does not appear to be any “off days.” Jesus didn’t say that we are to love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength on Sundays, when you are at church, as long as you are not on vacation, etc. The statement, like the one about loving our neighbors as ourselves, has no qualifiers, conditions, or exceptions. It is a simple statement with a period. This leads me to believe that we are to do these two things every day, no matter the day, the situation, or the circumstance.

 

I genuinely hope you are enjoying this very special holiday season, getting good rest, and spending quality time with family and friends. Please remember, however, that while we are not called to go to work every day and are actually commanded to have a day of rest, there are no off days when it comes to loving the Lord and our neighbors.

 

I also want to share a couple of quotes from TobyMac on Facebook:

 

“In the days ahead, remember: your job is to plant the seed, not change their heart. Don’t get your role and God’s role mixed up.”

 

“Each of us is an innkeeper who decides if there is room for Jesus.”

 

Please don’t hesitate to contact me if there is ever anything I can do for you or your family. I will always help you any way I can. You can reach me at kevin@whatwillyourinfluencebe.com.

 

Have a great day, a wonderful weekend, please cherish your precious family, and please stay well!

 

Kev